Time to Step Back!

In situations sometime while seeing things going wrong you cant do much about them. You try your best but in end have to go with wrong decision. This is mostly because of the rigid, and egoist approach which let things go on the wrong path.

For everyone its healthy to have an idea but if you face opposition to it then there can be mainly two reasons:

 1. Idea itself is bad
 2. Idea is good but someone's ego gets hurt.

Second scenario usually happens when one consider himself an authority but with lack of back ground knowledge to support his idea (beaware that can be you as well). It not bad to be in lime light but at least by working hard instead of playing the dirty politics.

As you know, in such scenario you dont have much of the options other than wasting your time or stepping back. I think its better to step back rather than wasting your productive time on such goofy things.

Finally an advice, never let the ego come in the way because when it is in you are out!

Finding it hard to do anything!

From last one week i am really finding hard to do anything after coming back from office. Just want to relax and watch TV. But that does not means that i am lazy its just the weather (lolz at least i have an excuse) ....

Actually, from last one week i am trying to gather my all scattered thoughts and trying to identify what i really want because i think i am leading a life without a goal. Trying to set few goals for myself for next couple of years and dont want to be too ambitious. 

One goal so far identified is to do regular exercise and the second go it to remain commit with the First goal. Which is really tough in my case...

Oh God! even finding hard to write a blog...:) so till next blog bye....

2012 Week 1 - "be human"

Tried to follow the "be human" theme but believe me failing badly. I never thought it would be this tough. Here are three top reasons which i noticed and now will work on them so i be a less jerk!

         1. Stop Passing Comments: Yes i noticed! how easily is to pass comment on other but think if the same thing happen to you how will you feel believe me its not a good feeling.

         2. Spend Time with Family: Now even though we all live in the same house but dont have much time for each other. Everyone after coming back from office have tons of other things to do. And, we dont realize the clock is ticking. Will Spend atleast a 1-2 hours quality time with Family and during that no TV no Laptop and no  other things.

         3. Be Thankful: Really needs a serious effort on my end. I realized that i always look forward to a lots of things and forget that i am the most fortunate one! Thanks to Allah. So be thankful to everyone who have contribution in it! And, believe me list is long....

In totality its a long list so for next week will work on these three and try to "be human"

Year 2012!

Good Morning year 2012!

I wish that this year and many more to come be the most healthy, prosperous and be Human year for all of us. One great thing is that this year started with my Janu "Hamza" so it has a special beginning. But, what i usually think is the changing dates on calender matters other than we grow old day by day! and try to be more dumb each day.

I hope this year bring some good to world. All these nonsense wars should end and people/gov should stop being innocent after brutal killing of millions around the world. The money you spend on wars can  be used to give food, education and health facility to the world. Believe me! people will love you this way. Stop discrimination between your citizen and the rest of the world because everyone is human neither more nor less but equal.

I hope this year bring some change in my Country Pakistan as well. We get rid of all these corrupt politicians and real change should start. Change will only start when we nation will change we use our vote appropriately. People get the best of all facilities.

Lets start year 2012, with "be Human" theme!

2011 is history now!

In next 48 hours the 2011 will end. Time flies and calender is now changing very frequently.

Few happenings of 2011
       1. Lost my Grandmother
       2. Blessed with a Niece
       3. Breakup with Alachisoft
       4. Joined Bentley

This been a really tough year because my grandmother passed away mid this year so can never forget this year. I guess life is like this it has to go on Thanks to Allah.

Thanks to my Parents and family as they really helped me in every step while me being a total jerk :)

Thanks to Alachisoft learned a lot from you. It been great learning time with you met some great people and wish you a very best of luck in your future endeavours. Thanks to Iqbal Khan, Mudassir Javed, Faisal Iqbal, Taimoor Haider, Kashif Butt and Karmran Ashfaq.

Now, trying to learn new things and hoping to get opportunity to gain experience on some new technologies and keeping my finger crossed.

Resolve of Year 2012.
     1. Be human
     2. Give time to Family
     3. Learn new technologies
     4. Try to improve technical writing skills.

Yesterday attended a fitness session and got some really useful tips to maintain fitness, instructor said if a person can do 50 push-ups he is fit, i guess to reach that limit i need next 50 years.

Sprint of life!

Don't know since when it was like this; but life just became a sprint. Its short and we all are running so fast that we are not realizing that its going to end soon. And, what we all are missing.

In this sprint, i guess i am neglecting my family a lot. Previously, my bro "Ali", me and sis when we were kids i remember that we all are used too to sit together for long hours talk a lot and "Abbu" telling the different Prophets stories during the load-shedding hour. Really had a great childhood. Thanks to my parents. Allah bless you both a long and health life you both did a lot for us. Missing those days. As now, we all while living in the same home dont have much time to sit together.

Just realised that where a lot of things changed over the past year load-shedding didn't changed at all...lolz 

As such it was not a good week. Usually, on my way to office i first drop my father to his office. And, while leaving for office we mostly came across a man with long hairs, beard, wearing turban and suite leaving for his work too.  Because of his unique style and modesty usually me and my father talk about him. Mid this week i came to know that he was murdered by someone. I really felt bad about him and cant understand why people do this for money. The whole money of this world cannot bring one soul back to this world. Please live and let everyone live. 

Weekend

Weekend! there is always an excitement on Friday evening, everyone is in hurry...

Couple of years back i realized what's the main reason behind this excitement....it always ur loved ones  they can be family members, or friends. I experienced this in 2007-2009 when i was away from my home ,family and friends...believe me the fridays i loved most in my life started to hate them...because  i usually have spend them alone...

its true that you realize the importance of family and friends when they are not around. So, cherish the times when you have them around...